“Say it before it’s too late”

“It’s hard to wait for something when u know it might never be yours. It’s even harder to give up when u know it’s the only thing u wanted..”.

Why to end up saying ” If I had another chance I would have done this, said this “, why to make a situation for yourself and later regret why I never done that. Why be afraid to say “I love you” to someone you love just because you are feared about the response. If you never gonna express it, the response will always be “No”. Why to feel bad later about missing that once chance to talk to that one person before getting apart from them forever. Why regret of never taking a big risk (especially in love). Taking a bigger risk can pay off more than taking smaller risks.

Finally, why on that deathbed in tears say “if i could have another chance”.

What I feel is missing opportunities to tell people what you feel for them is one of the saddest part. You never know about tomorrow, you never know what happens tomorrow, the person with whom you rejoice all your feelings with may not be their to listen to your thoughts. Maybe you’ll find someone similar but they’ll never be them. You never know about the next moment, what it brings for you, what it takes away from you. Don’t wait until it’s too late to tell someone how much you love and how much you care about them, Because when they’re gone, no matter how loud you shout and cry, they won’t hear you anymore.

For all those people who find it tough or don’t find any reason why to share their feelings or thought to their best friends, i can say only one thing, it will not make you small if you share what you feel. The person to whom you speak up to, believe’s in you.

I also feel we should never stop to appreciate the moments. Just stop texting or taking pictures of every moment and realize what you are doing when you are doing.

We all need to learn to say thanks and learn to mean it. What i have come across is that many parts of your life will improve if you do.You should realize how beautiful you are. There are plenty definitions of beauty and you shouldn’t think you’re unworthy of someone’s attention.

Be brave. Say what you need to say. When you don’t speak up, there’s a lot of important stuff that ends up not getting said.

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17 thoughts on ““Say it before it’s too late”

  1. I love the thoughts in Say it before it is too late……………………….. sometimes, if we are in that very moment we are waiting for, we sometimes lay back……………..because of this word: F E A R………..I know it won’t make you small if you say to a person what you wanted to say but you cannot blame yourself too to feel that kind of fear that lingers on you……………………………. because we have been hurt before…..we could not just forget it……we could not just forget how did it feel like before in that situation……but we have this hope that one day we will be able to do that one brave thing in life without regrets: “SAY IT BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE…”

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      1. I know….I did it… I had tried it…….but at the end, we decided to part ways…sometimes, it is a question between values and love……………..

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      2. So what.. It happens and you need to gather the pieces and move.. Move for the better. I think time doesn’t heal a damn thing, but the next person in your life does.

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  2. This is such a lovely post Ankit, it’s so true that we all need to express our thoughts better and take that leap of faith. Your post reminds me of the song by John Mayer “Say what you need to say” it’s really nice too. 🙂 Something I have noticed is that usually the person on the receiving end can see how hard it is for the person saying it so their appreciation eases the anxiety for the other person and everyone is happy! 🙂

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    1. Thanks Jennifer! 🙂
      I will definitely be downloading John Mayer’s song.
      I totally agree with you and in fact everyone will agree that people who listens to others pain always help the person in pain settle with some happiness in the end. As heartbreak isn’t as loud as a bomb exploding, so I thank everyone who has ever eased the anxiety of others. 🙂

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      1. You’re so welcome Ankit 🙂 I also have this song in my playlist, it’s a good reminder. I agree with you that those who listen to pain can magically take that pain and anxiety away and transform it into happiness and joy. Sometimes just having someone’s presence is all you need 🙂

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      1. Yeah. Welcome…
        I too loved this one
        I m New in this wordpress and came across your blog. . Your blogs are very nice and Amazing … I just starting writing blogs they will not be as good as yours but just read them once

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      2. Hi Ani! Thank you so much for your kind words.
        Starts are not always glittering but they are starts for a reason. I will definitely check your blog posts out. I guess I have bookmarked your blog in safari. Thanks.

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